Updated: Nov 4, 2020
We all know someone who is affected by Dementia and/or Alzheimer's. Caring for a loved one with dementia poses many challenges for families and caregivers. It can be very difficult to redirect them, get daily things done, or just deal with the loss of the memories of a life spent together. In addition, dementia can cause mood swings and even change a person’s personality or behavior. Below we provide strategies to best communicate and engage our loved ones which can significantly improve the quality of life of everyone involved!
Dementia vs. Alzheimer's
Even though dementia is thought of as a disease, it is actually a syndrome! A syndrome is a group of symptoms or diseases that don't have a definitive diagnosis. Specifically, dementia's group of symptoms are ones that affect mental tasks like memory and reasoning. So Alzheimer’s is actually just one of those symptoms/diseases that fall under the dementia umbrella. Having a diagnosis of dementia is often related to the Alzheimer's Disease process but it doesn't have to be. Dementia could be caused by the Parkinson's Disease process or can even result from what happens after a stroke.
Even though the causes of dementia are not fully known and there are no cures, there ARE many ways to assist a person with dementia to live with dignity and good quality of life.
We have a ton of solutions to help people stay at home safely with dementia. But sometimes it makes more sense to move into assisted living because more help is needed than can be provided at home. If that's the case Care Patrol can help. Check out this interview to learn a hot tip about short term assisted living stays too! Watch the Interview
Does your loved one have COVID-19?
There are several things to think about if you are preparing your home to care for a COVID-19 person. They may need to continue to self isolate at home. One way to help keep them in isolation is to have a separate bedroom and bathroom for them to use. You may also want to consider making a room up on the first floor so they do not have to worry about going up and downstairs. It can take a toll on someone's mental health to self-isolate for long periods of time. Try to plan video chats with friends and family to help them not feel alone!
4 Simple Fixes
Here are 4 simple changes that can make life as a caregiver easier.
1. Struggling to get your loved one to eat enough? Place a white bowl on a red placemat to help keep their attention on the food.
2. Wrap grab bars or railings in brightly colored tape to make them stand out so the person automatically wants to grab hold.
3. Worried about them wandering outside? Try placing a black mat in front of the door which can be perceived as a whole and they may avoid stepping on it.
4. Need to know when they are getting out of bed? Try a pressure mat (pictured above) that alarms once it is stepped on!
Communication style is key!
Communicating with a person who has dementia can be tough. Here are a few tips to help!
1. Set a positive mood; your body language and tone of voice go a long way in creating an environment where they feel safe which aids in the communication process.
2. Speak slowly and use clear simple words to allow the person to process and understand what you want them to do.
3. Not getting answers to your questions? Ask it as a yes or no question which are much easier to process and therefore give an answer.
4. If stuck repeating a question or doing an inappropriate task, redirect by introducing a different but positive activity.
Don't forget, it's SO important to connect with their feelings and acknowledge them as human beings! Learn more about communicating by clicking below.